Someone asked me these questions on my facebook page today that I KNOW, many out there need to hear the answers. I hope this helps =)
Rather watch than read? Below is the Facebook Live that I did on this post
Question: How do you feel rich when you’re on welfare?
The first step is perspective. You don’t need money to feel rich. You are ALIVE! You are BREATHING! You get to wake up and see the sky, feel the air, eat food, have a roof over your head, clean drinking water…you my dear, are so freaking RICH! There are millions of people in this world who view you as rich and who would love to have what you have. Let’s remember this.
The second step is to slowly shift from a poor, poverty mindset, to a wealth mindset.
Being wealthy isn’t limited to the size of your bank account. Being wealthy is a mindset FIRST, a mindset you must cultivate FIRST, and then it shows up in your physical world.
You don’t need a billion dollars to feel rich. I know plenty of millionaires and billionaires who freak the fuck out over money, constantly feel like they never have enough, and are always stressing over money! Why? Because they have a poverty, scarcity mindset. You could have 30 million dollars but if your mindset is stuck on the poverty dial, it will NEVER feel like it’s enough.
Being rich is a state of mind that over time, manifests into your 3D reality. There are tons of LOA tools you can use to start upgrading your wealth consciousness. My favorite is a daily appreciation practice where I list 5 things, every day, that I appreciate and am grateful for. This helps shift my focus from lack to abundance. When I appreciate my life, the people in it, and everything in general, I am focused on all the GOOD in it, all that I have, and not what is missing. When I’m focused on the good, I put out an energetic vibration that FEELS good, and then I begin to attract things of the same vibration- I attract GOOD things into my life. Choose one that helps you to FEEL good. The FEELING behind the desire is what matters most. Here are a few posts that can provide some perspective and upgrade your mindset…
Question: How do you feel loved by a partner if you’re not being loved?
Easy. Love YOURSELF. Give it to yourself. You want love? Awesome. You don’t need anyone in order to FEEL love. You can give that to yourself.
If you want someone else to love you, it starts with YOU. You can’t receive love from someone else if you don’t even give it to yourself FIRST. It starts with you. It starts by realizing that you don’t need someone to love you, in order for you to feel love. You have to love yourself.
Also, let’s not depend on someone else to love us in order to feel good. When we depend on someone out there to love us, in order for us to feel worthy and good enough, what happens if they go away? If things don’t work out? You’ll feel crushed. Heartbroken. Devasted. But, if you can give to yourself that love that you desire, no matter what happens with any relationship, you will ALWAYS have love in your life. Having a partner is awesome, but you don’t need anyone to complete you. You ARE complete. You ARE perfect. Anyone that comes into your life, their purpose is to add awesomeness and value to it, but they are not the end all be all. Your well-being and love is not dependent on THEM. It’s YOU.
If you want love from others, start by loving yourself first. Give to yourself what you desire, and you will become a magnet for it.